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Marfa, TX - 10/2017 - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Marfa, TX - 10/2017 - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Friday 6-Pack...On a Saturday!

November 25, 2017 by Matt Bates

Black Friday got the best of me, so I am posting this weeks playlist on a Saturday. We have new upbeat tracks from Campfires and Snakfight, as well as a weird one from Earth Telephone and a new pre-release track from Waterparks! Tons of driving pop-punk here! Check it out!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy and share!

-YourFriendMatt

November 25, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, love, passion, apple music, apple, marfa, playlist, waterparks, campfires, earth telephone, travel, explore, adventure, california, los angeles
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We're not calorie countin'...

We're not calorie countin'...

The Things We Do With Technology...

November 19, 2017 by Matt Bates

Ice Check is a new app that lets you know, in real time, if your local neighborhood McDonald's ice cream machine is operational or not. What a time to be alive. Drunk at 2am and need your McFlurry fix? No problem, there's an app for that. Honestly, I don't know how to feel about this. It a day an age where obesity runs rampant through every generation and cheap, awful food for you is available at every gas station, supermarket aisle and carefully placed vending machine; do we really need to know if the ice cream machine is working at the McDonald's down the street?

Who am I kidding, does it really matter? This is America. Land of the free. Convenience rules everything around us. In the infamous words of Ron Swanson, "The whole point of this country is if you want to eat garbage, balloon up to 600 pounds and die of a heart attack at 43, you can! You are free to do so."

Get your McFlurry on people.

-YourFriendMatt

November 19, 2017 /Matt Bates
mcdonalds, ice check, app, apple, itunes, app store, iphone, ios, mcflurry, technology
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November 17th, 2013 - 5am - Shot on iPhone 4s - Time to go

November 17th, 2013 - 5am - Shot on iPhone 4s - Time to go

November 18th, 2013

November 18, 2017 by Matt Bates

On this day four years ago, Jamie and I left everything we knew about the comforts of home, living with parents, and hit the road for Los Angeles. We drove through the early morning, hit one of the worst storms we had ever seen that pushed our SUV and trailer off the road, and finally ended up in Nashville, TN. This was the first stop on our first cross-country trip together. The next few days tested our relationship, forced us to think as a team and left us with memories we will never forget. 

If you would have told me on that morning that we would both advance our careers, move to Nashville, get engaged, buy a home, and then move back to Los Angeles before 2018; I honestly don't know what I would have said. Maybe I would have said "Hell yeah!" Who knows. 

Nashville now holds an extraordinary place in our hearts. This is where we bought our first house that we turned into a home. During that first stay in 2013, we hit a storm that delayed our drive for hours and we were in terrible spirits when we finally got to the city. The second we got out of the SUV, our moods changed. We heard the music, saw the lights of downtown and wanted to be apart of it. We had a blast "honky-tonkin" and hitting all the bars up and down Broadway.

Here is to reflecting, learning, and loving.

-YourFriendMatt

Our home for the next week - November 17th, 2013

Our home for the next week - November 17th, 2013

Had to take off the trailer so we could park - Not fun

Had to take off the trailer so we could park - Not fun

No idea.

No idea.

When in Nashville...

When in Nashville...

The Don Kelley Band @ Robert's - Best band in Nashville - Had no idea this would become our local bar 3 years later when we moved in a few blocks away.

The Don Kelley Band @ Robert's - Best band in Nashville - Had no idea this would become our local bar 3 years later when we moved in a few blocks away.

November 18, 2017 /Matt Bates
Nashville, love, adventure, los ángeles, philadelphia, delco
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New Orleans, October 2017

New Orleans, October 2017

Friday 6-Pack...

November 17, 2017 by Matt Bates

Great week for some new pop rock jams. We were lucky enough to see Dashboard premier their new track "We Fight" while living in Nashville and now its available for all to hear! We also have a new pop-punk single from Real Friends, as well as a great track from Stacked Like Pancakes dedicated to the "fearless" leader of these broken states, 45!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy and share!

-YourFriendMatt

November 17, 2017 /Matt Bates
pop punk, dashboard confessional, real friends, alternative, tour, band, love, passion, apple music, apple, iphone, New Orleans, los angeles
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Friday 6-Pack...

November 10, 2017 by Matt Bates

Another Friday and another driving pop rock playlist to set off your Friday. We have 6 new tracks from bands I haven't heard of until this week (besides Sparks the Rescue) including Woes, Living Tradition and Kicking Sunrise. Clocking in at under 20 minutes, this list starts off pretty driving and ends a bit more mellow. 

 

Music Saves.

 

Listen, enjoy and share!

 

-YourFriendMatt

November 10, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, playlist, apple, apple music, love, passion, pop punk, rock
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Marfa, TX - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Marfa, TX - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Friday 6-Pack...

November 03, 2017 by Matt Bates

What an exciting week! The new Somos is stuck in my head, Good Thoughts is chilling me out and Hold Close is getting pumped for the weekend! We also have some great new tracks from Balancing the Different, The Moms and Hang Tight!

There are even 70+ new emojis that were released this week.

Life is good.

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy and share!

 

-YourFriendMatt

November 03, 2017 /Matt Bates
friday, music, apple, apple music, somos, hang tight, rock, pop punk, passion, weekend, iPhone X, ios, tech, emojis, emoji
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7/21/2016 - Homeowners

7/21/2016 - Homeowners

Moving...again...

October 08, 2017 by Matt Bates

So we are hitting the road again, back to California. In the last four years, we have made three major moves across the country. It is starting to become standard. We are just used to keeping it simple and downsizing. This time around as we are packing it is becoming easier to get rid of unnecessary items, clothes, kitchen supplies, etc. The staff at Buffalo Exchange here in Nashville is probably getting tired of me hauling boxes and boxes of old band t-shirts.

Moving is always bittersweet. We look forward to getting back to Santa Monica, the beach, fish tacos, our friends there and riding our bikes to work, but leaving is always hard. We are fortunate and always find AMAZING people wherever we go, and leaving people is hard. We know we will see them all again, but it does suck. We have had a blast finding new restaurants with our friends here, having BBQ pizza cook-offs with our neighbors (who we love dearly), and sharing so many porch beers. 

Nashville is where I bought my first home and took some significant steps in my adult life. This is where I decided to make Jamie my (future) wife and where we pushed our careers. Nashville continued to push Jamie and me to work together as a team. When we first got here, we did not know a soul and that kind of pressure can make or break a relationship, but we only got stronger. We will miss everyone here. Thank you to anyone who was kind to us, shared their lives with us and treated us like family. We love you.

 

-YourFriendMatt

October 08, 2017 /Matt Bates
Nashville, love, life, california, los angeles, delco, home, bitter sweet, moving
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Tough week.

Tough week.

Friday 6-Pack...

October 06, 2017 by Matt Bates

There is no doubt this week has been horrific. I hope we can all agree that violence is never the answer.

Let this playlist be a sparkle of light for the end of your week. We have some new Anti-Flag, re-done Tegan and Sara, a trip down memory lane with the New Atlantic and one of my favorite Tom Petty tracks ever. Free Fallin' was one of the first songs I ever learned how to play and absolutely changed my life forever. Thanks, Tom.

 

Music heals all.

 

Listen, share and enjoy. Please take care of each other.

 

-YourFriendMatt

October 06, 2017 /Matt Bates
tom petty, anti flag, tegan and sara, playlist, music, passion, love, rock, alternative, apple music, apple
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Let's do a beer.

Let's do a beer.

Friday 6-Pack...

September 29, 2017 by Matt Bates

Only a few weekends left in Nashville. Going to make them count and let some great new music be the soundtrack. This week I am excited because there is a ton of new releases I am enjoying, including tracks from Can't Swim, Sleep On It, and Such Gold. Check it out!

Listen, share and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

September 29, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, love, nashville, band, art, tour, can't swim, friday, rock, sleep on it, new music, Apple, apple music, apple, playlist
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Nashville, TN - Summer 2017

Nashville, TN - Summer 2017

A few weeks off...

September 24, 2017 by Matt Bates

It has been an interesting few months. I took some time off from updating YourFriendMatt.com to wrap my head around it. When I think about it, the last year has been a whirlwind. We bought our home and moved in. We got settled into a new city and routine. Jamie found work. We started making our house a home by decorating, repainted and refinishing the whole thing. We even added a deck on the back half of the house. 

If that does not sound like a lot, we just got engaged in July and set a date for late 2018. We have been busy, and I could not be more proud or excited for what will happen next.

Stay tuned.

September 24, 2017 /Matt Bates
life, nashville, engaged, love, home, adulting, busy
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Shot on iPhone 8 Plus

Shot on iPhone 8 Plus

Friday 6-Pack...

September 22, 2017 by Matt Bates

I took a few weeks off from creating playlist and writing. A lot has happened in the few weeks, but  the quest for good jams never stops. Here is a quick list I have been playing non-stop on Apple Music. 

Listen, share and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

September 22, 2017 /Matt Bates
Apple Music, the story so far, the wonder years, knuckle puck, seaway, blink 182, the movielife, passion, music, tour, band, alternative, pop punk, iphone, apple, apple music
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Making Friends...

Making Friends...

Dr. Dolittle Part Three: We have cats...

July 09, 2017 by Matt Bates

"Come here you little shit!" - Jamie

It's starting to get weird. Over the last few weeks, animals have found their way to me for help. Recently I have helped a defenseless turtle trying to cross an interstate. I saved a grumpy little bird from being pulverized by a lawn-mowing maniac, and now we have a litter of kittens.

A few Saturday nights ago Jamie and I were unwinding over some hand-crafted cocktails with friends. The best parties happen in the kitchen, so we all gathered around our kitchen island in clear view of our glass front door. While one of our friends were telling us about their week at work, we noticed a white, fluffy face appearing from our front porch shadows and put it's paw on our front door as if to ask if it could come in and hang out. Jamie shrieked with excitement and completely stopped any and all conversation, bolting to the front door to become this kittens mother (and rub this fluff ball on her face).

The obviously terrified kitten ran from the front door into the shadows under our porch. From there on our night was consumed with finding and coddling this kitten (regardless if I wanted to or not). "Hold the flashlight better! I need to get this baby! Oh man, he's so cute! Come here you little shit!" or some string or order of these sentences were exclaimed over and over again until we finally got the damn thing. 

Be careful what you wish for. We now have a litter of kittens patrolling our backyard. What's even funnier is our dogs could give a shit. As long as those two bums are fed, they don't care who comes and goes. 

Does anyone want a cat?

-YourFriendMatt

The kitten whisperer...

The kitten whisperer...

July 09, 2017 /Matt Bates
Nashville, funny, sunday, 2017, homeowner, kittens, baby animals, dr. dolittle
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That Friday Feeling...

That Friday Feeling...

Friday 6-Pack...

July 07, 2017 by Matt Bates

Took last week because I just did not find any new music I liked. Gave me some more time to do some even deeper digging for new jams and I think I found some goodies this week. We have a very straight forward, 90's alternative-ish track from Mason-Jar (Ex-Cute is What We Aim For). I just don't know what draws me to this track, but I dig it. We also have some new releases from Sleep In, American Pastime, and Two Inch Astronaut. Crank it up and have fun this weekend!

 

Music Saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

July 07, 2017 /Matt Bates
playlist, music, love, passion, friday, alternative, Modern Chemistry, mason jar, sleep in, apple, apple music
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Dr. Dolittle Part Two: Bird man...

June 25, 2017 by Matt Bates

"I just saved your life. Why are you so grumpy." - Me.

I am starting to feel like Ace Ventura. I have been coming across animals that need my help (See Part One of this story). Most recently I was spending my Sunday gardening and playing with our dogs in the yard. We live next to an old church, and they have their lawn cut bi-weekly. Around 11 am or so before they get started with their service the lawn-keeper comes and makes sure the grass looks good for the parishioners. I was done gardening for the day, so I decided to head back in so Jamie and I could get our mimosa on.

I was on our porch and heard a faint "cheep" come from somewhere on the churches lawn. The roar of the riding lawn mower started somewhere in the distance, so I knew the lawn-keeper was on his way. I started looking around the yard stumbled upon a little grumpy bird sitting in the grass. I gave him my best "Hey, get the hell out of here; I don't want you to get run over by a lawnmower" juke attempt, but he called my bluff and continued to sit there. I stared at him for a while, and he stared right back. I blinked first; he was good.

I did a quick internet search of what to do with an injured bird. What I found was don't touch him, put him in a paper bag or shoe box and leave him alone after. Seems easy; I can do this. I went for the search of a paper bag as lawnmower man rounded the corner of the church and was making his way towards my helpless, grumpy friend. I jumped off the porch, paper bag in hand, and leaped in front of the lawn keeper waving my arms like a moron to prevent him from blending this grumpy little guy into a bird smoothie.

We got the bird into the paper bag and left him alone. The internet also told me to leave the bag open and check on him in an hour to see if it flew away. Which, an hour later, he flew away but not before pooping in the bag and on my porch. He was a little bastard. 

-YourFriendMatt

June 25, 2017 /Matt Bates
ace ventura, animal, nashville, sunday, humor, homeowner, dr. dolittle
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It's Miller Time...

It's Miller Time...

Friday 6-Pack...

June 23, 2017 by Matt Bates

This week's list is interesting. We have some different kinds of rock. Milk Teeth bring the older vibes of 90's grunge, while Bilmuri brings almost a Cure-eske flavor to the mix. 

And, of course, with the celebration of Dude Ranch turning 20 this week, I had to throw in an old Blink track. 

 

Music Saves.

 

Share, listen and enjoy.

 

-YourFriendMatt

June 23, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, playlist, apple, apple music, love, passion, bilmuri, milk teeth, blink 182
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Back yard BBQ time...

Back yard BBQ time...

Friday 6-Pack...

June 16, 2017 by Matt Bates

This week's list is perfect for some time in the backyard. We have a new favorite of mine, Locals Only. We also have a new track, from the newest addition to SideOneDummy, Worriers. It is very reminiscent of 90's alternative-rock. We were also able to squeeze in some PA love this week with Captain, We're Sinking and Here/Now! Solid list to sink into the weekend.

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share & enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

June 16, 2017 /Matt Bates
Nashville, playlist, passion, pop punk, love, apple, apple music, weber, worriers, the weekend classic, locals only
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L.A Jackson - Nashville, TN

L.A Jackson - Nashville, TN

Friday 6-Pack...

June 09, 2017 by Matt Bates

Friday is here and it's time for some new weekend jams. Check out this super poppy collection, including Locals Only, Philadelphia's The Sixties and even a new track from Bleachers!

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

 

June 09, 2017 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, apple music, apple, the sixties, bleachers, locals only, nashville, weekend, itunes
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Charlotte Pike. Nashville, TN.

Charlotte Pike. Nashville, TN.

Dr. Dolittle...Part One: Turtle Power...

May 28, 2017 by Matt Bates

"Get the fuck out of the road you jerk off!" - Someone. 

Something weird happened over the last few weeks. For whatever reason, I happened to be in the right place at the right time when someone (or something) needed help.

I do not consider myself an activist at all. I do not go out of my way to find animals to save; I am not a vegetarian (I did a short stint of that a few years ago, but bacon is just too damn good), I do not volunteer anywhere (even though I probably should). I am just a dude who felt compelled to take action when it seems like nobody else would.

I was on a recent stay-cation and made it my mission to do as little as possible. Which, if you know anything about me is something I am not great at. Ask Jamie; she hates that I can not just sit on the couch and relax. On this particular day, I had gotten up, finished cleaning the whole house including laundry, dusting, Swiffering, and reorganizing things for no reason except sheer boredom. What did I decide to do? Go to Target. That's what new homeowners do when they are bored right? Just wonder around Target smelling candles, staring at how many different types of trash cans there are, and buying the most useless shit you can find, right?

I was driving down the road in my obnoxiously large Ford Expedition when I noticed something stranded in the middle of my lane. I thought nothing of it, but as I got closer, it seemed to be moving on its own, and right before I almost ran it over I noticed it was a small box turtle trying to cross a four-lane highway out front of Target. I have no idea how it survived getting that far. He was already almost half across. I swerved so I would not run him over and pulled over. I thought for a moment what I could do since cars were doing 60mph past me on the side of the road and narrowly missing my stranded green little buddy. What did I do?  The only logical thing. I used my obnoxiously large Ford Expedition to block traffic, pulling out sideways onto the highway, threw my flashers on and jumped out to save this little turtle. My mother and Jamie would be horrified. 

I picked the little guy up (he was petrified at this point, all limbs tucked away in his shell), jumped a guard rail and set him down safely on the other side of the road...all while everyone yelled every obscenity they could muster.

Why did the turtle cross the road? I have no friggin' idea, but I am glad I was there to help him out.

 

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 28, 2017 /Matt Bates
Nashville, activist, turtle power, target, iphone, vacation, staycation
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Friday 6-Pack...

May 26, 2017 by Matt Bates

GOLD-FINGA! This week's list is packed with poppy weekend jams including, you guessed it, new Goldfinger! We also have new, and long awaited, Pet Symmetry, as well as a long time favorite of mine Hot Mulligan...oh, and new Neck Deep I can't stop playing on repeat.

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 26, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, music, passion, apple, playlist, apple music, iphone
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Slim & Husky's - Nashville, TN

Slim & Husky's - Nashville, TN

Friday 6-Pack...

May 19, 2017 by Matt Bates

Another Friday and another awesome 6-Pack. I had to give it a few listens, but the new Paramore REALLY grew on me. This week's list starts off with one of my favorite tracks from After Laughter. We also have some new more groovy jams from PA's own Tigers Jaw and Macseal. We even have a new track from unknown (for now) Philadelphia crew, Captain, We're Sinking.

A lot of PA love in this 6-Pack!

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 19, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, apple music, tour, nashville, friday, playlist, tigers jaw, paramore, 6-pack
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